When it comes to breastfeeding. This is especially true for first-time parents. Because mom’s got it, right?
Well, no. Dads have a huge role to play in breastfeeding, too. This guide is going to explore the place of fathers in the breastfeeding process. It shall also give you a few ideas on how to help a first-time mom during breastfeeding.
How Dads Can Support First-time Moms During Breastfeeding
Studies have shown that first-time moms are more likely to breastfeed when they have support from their partners.
When dads give their support during breastfeeding, moms also tend to breastfeed for longer, usually up to the recommended 6 months, before weaning their babies.
Breastfeeding is often painful and even difficult sometimes for first-time moms. However, it also has a lot of benefits for both her and the baby. Moms and babies reap these benefits best when they have the support of dads in the breastfeeding process.
Here are some of the ways dads can support the breastfeeding process:
- Get Informed
If you want to help your partner during breastfeeding, it is important to first learn how breastfeeding works. Understand that breastfeeding is something that has to be learned. It is not always easy, especially for a first-time mom.
Also, know that breastfeeding can be very time-consuming. Most newborn babies feed 8-12 times a day for 10-60 minutes.
Dads also need to learn about common breastfeeding issues, including:
- Too much or too little milk
- Nipple infection and soreness
- The baby refusing to feed
- Breast biting
- Clogged milk ducts and mastitis
Being in the know is important because it will allow you to support your partner through these breastfeeding issues. Also, in case of any complications, you will be in a position to seek advice from your healthcare provider without relying on your partner.
2. Be Available
Being available is more than just about being physically present.
Keep her company and b helpful in any way that you can. Ask questions at the hospital, then take paternity leave and be present with her as she adjusts into motherhood.
3. Communicate
Communication entails listening and expressing yourself well to the other person.
Dads need to be honest about their parenting journey. Talk with your partner about your feelings because babies can put a lot of strain on any relationship. Communication will also help you find practical solutions for whatever you are going through.
4. Pamper Your Partner
Your partner has just been through quite a lot. She needs to feel loved and needed now more than ever. Take care of her.
Bring the baby to your partner when it’s time to nurse. Then learn to burp and cuddle the baby after every feeding session. Your partner will really appreciate you taking care of such things especially at night.
Be there for her when she needs anything. Wait on her hand and foot and make her as comfortable as possible. As she breastfeeds, set her up with the nursing pillow and help her get into a comfortable position. Help keep her hydrated and make sure she’s eating well. Engage her in conversations and just be caring and thoughtful.
5. Help Take Care Of The Baby
Your baby needs your love, too. So learn to change diapers and figure out how to bathe her from day 1. Hold her, take walks with her, play with her, and give her lots of skin-to-skin contact. These are the special daddy-baby moments that you will remember for the rest of your life.
Final Thoughts
As you can see, there is a lot more that goes into caring for a newborn than just breastfeeding. As a dad, you can assist your partner and make her life a lot easier by doing these things. Your support is the key to making breastfeeding successful for both mom and baby.
